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What this guide covers
What this guide covers
Asking a stranger
Mentors say yes more than expected
Make the yes easy: send the context first, so the session goes to the problem.
The brief
Send the brief with the booking
Context, the question, the decision date, what you tried and the answer you need.
Opening
Open with the problem, not your story
Skip the bio; your mentor read the brief and wants the hard part.
- So, we started in 2023, and then... Ten minutes gone.
- We must pick free or paid pilots by Friday. Now the session can start.
Testing the answer
Ask when the answer would flip
A good answer comes with the conditions where it stops being true.
- Why do you say that?
- When would the answer be the opposite?
- What would you check first?
Closing
Close with your takeaway and a name
Say back what you heard, then ask who else you should talk to.
- Say the takeaway in your own words
- Ask for a name who else should I talk to?
- Send two lines after what you decided
Doing it on Mentornity
Prepare it on Mentornity
Forms, the meeting page and your program’s rules help a short session go further.
Fill in the meeting form
If your program has one, it reopens prefilled later.
Use the meeting page
The topic and files sit on the meeting page.
Know the cancel window
Your program sets how late you can cancel or move.
Fill in the meeting form
If your program has one, it reopens prefilled later.
General Forms
- Text Field
- Single Choice
- Rating Stars
Matching Feedback Forms
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Fill this form for Michael C. Fill the form Answered -
Fill this form for Susan W. Fill the form Answered
Use the meeting page
The topic and files sit on the meeting page.
Bring two goals for this term; your mentor helps make them concrete.
Goal-template.pdfKnow the cancel window
Your program sets how late you can cancel or move.
General Forms
- Text Field
- Single Choice
- Rating Stars
Matching Feedback Forms
-
Fill this form for Michael C. Fill the form Answered -
Fill this form for Susan W. Fill the form Answered
Bring two goals for this term; your mentor helps make them concrete.
Goal-template.pdfWrite your brief tonight
Five lines, sent with the booking, give your mentor the whole session to help.