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What the Decision Balance is, how to fill it in and what happens next.
What this guide covers
What this guide covers
What it is
Weigh one decision on paper
You list what doing it would bring, for you and for people close to you.
Why it helps
See every side at once
Writing it all down puts every consideration in view at the same time.
- Not a verdict the totals do not decide for you
- Your weights 1 matters a little, 5 a lot
- Clearer, not pushed use it to see, not to force
Filling it in
Fifteen minutes, one area at a time
Write the decision, then the gains and losses, then how it would feel.
Name the decision
Write it as one thing to do, like taking a job.
List gains and losses
For you and people close to you, weighted 1 to 5.
Add how it would feel
How you would see yourself, and how others would see it.
Name the decision
Write it as one thing to do, like taking a job.
List gains and losses
For you and people close to you, weighted 1 to 5.
Add how it would feel
How you would see yourself, and how others would see it.
On Mentornity
Find it, fill it in, send it
Your mentor’s tool waits on your home page until you send it.
Find it on your home page
Tools to fill in shows what was sent, and by whom.
Stop whenever you like
Your answers are saved as you go.
Check, then send
Before you send, you see any step left empty.
Find it on your home page
Tools to fill in shows what was sent, and by whom.
Decision BalanceFrom Rachel Bennett To do See all Stop whenever you like
Your answers are saved as you go.
Check, then send
Before you send, you see any step left empty.
Decision BalanceFrom Rachel Bennett To do See all What happens next
You talk it through together
Your mentor reads your answers, comments and agrees next steps with you.
- Only you two program admins do not see the answers
- Comments on any part of it
- Next steps who does what, by when
- Still editable change answers after sending
Fill it in before you meet
Bring the heaviest item on your list to the meeting.